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Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.

Think about whether you would like this person if you had to actually be WITH them.

Also, don't submit, even in cyber unless you actually mean it. A lot of cyber relationships are just as important as real life to the people involved and they take them just as seriously.

If you expect it to shift into real time, for gawd sake, try to find someone who has more to offer you than just D/s.

D/s is fun, D/s is good, but D/s is also not all there is in life.

Remember, this is not an interactive sex program you are playing with.

There are real people on the other side of that screen.Establishing a presence as an intelligent, dominant person will go far to bring you to the attention of the intelligent, PICKY subs as a Domme worth having.Real power shows itself in politeness and in good manners.DON'T ask questions like, "What do you do with your sub? If you notice a sub who has the respect of the Dommes, sure envy him, but also watch him and learn from him!" or "What would you do to me if I were your sub." We don't do fantasy fodder wank material. What he is doing is working, he has the Dommes attention. I am a little confused by the subs who come in saying they are not worthy, if your not worthy why would a Domme want you?Upper case does NOT always imply female in this chatroom, just as lower case is NOT always male. Its a major turn off when a guy comes in saying ' I want to serve! they are JUST looking for attention why give them what they want???Put these people on Ignore and talk about something else.Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.1) You might want to read a Dommes profile before addressing her in the room most of them specify what they'd like to be called.. t I suggest defaulting to Ms (Screen name) or Ma'am.If you yourself outside the chat room just re log in. Real life Dommes are much more impressed to find out that you have a brain, can hold a polite conversation, and have a few manners.The other half of this is "Don't kiss my butt unless I TELL you to kiss it." Not everyone wants their hind parts sucked on. There are probably 10 guy subs for every female Domme.

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