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Dating rules are stupid
Over the years I’ve had a number of wonderful relationships with people I’ve met online, but none of them have lasted any significant amount of time. Maybe it’s coincidence or perhaps meeting someone online just doesn’t have the romantic ingredient that seems to be missing from my hot and meaty stew of love.I like a relationship to be a story that you can tell someone, and I could never imagine the beginning of that story being “we met on datingsite.com”.Those issues may disproportionately affect me for some reason, right? Some intrepid fellow ran a little experiment to see how different the experience on OKCupid was for men and women.
I don’t drink, so I don’t hang out in bars or any other the other places you might typically find other single folks. Furthermore, many of them browse anonymously so they don’t even appear in the visitor lists of the men they check it.
My interests skew towards the geriatric; I’ll take a lovely cup of tea over a rock concert ten times out of ten. You can see how this could create problems and why dating websites seemed like a good solution to them. Women treat dating websites like coffee shop windows; merely a portal to peruse the selection from a safe distance. I don’t think I’ll ever understand how it’s annoying if a man asks you personal questions at a bar, but if no men message you on a dating website you feel dejected. This is what I meant by peering through the coffee shop window. There are exceptions, two of them being my sisters who each pursued the men they love.
There wasn’t this giant underlying need to immediately have access to and know all the dirty history and red flags of the person sitting across from you.
People dating were able to live more in the present based on the person they saw sitting in front of them now and less on what they were months or years ago.
Religions were able to live more in the present based on the organization they are now and less on what they were decades or centuries ago.
If the person hearing the message believed, they’d then join the recruiting church based on how they felt about it and what other people knew about it, and much less based on what they could hop online and discover in five minutes or less.
If one person liked a reciprocating person, they’d then progress with each other and move toward a common goal based on how they felt about it, and much less based on what they could hop online and discover in five minutes or less.
You have stories to tell, and passions to share, and things to talk about that are more interesting than the weather.
They still think that, despite demanding equality in every other respect, men should pursue them in romance. But for the most part I think we can agree that Disney has ruined a man’s chances to get a message from a woman on a dating website.
So, the people on the site aren’t necessarily the cream of the crop and women won’t message me.