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I would have been dating again within a year if I had not been in a car accident that put me out of action for 9 months.One is ready to date again whenever solitude gives way to loneliness.Consider this, if we look at companionship as filling a void, then what exactly are we attracting and when we attract it, what are we actually receiving?

Typically when we miss the companionship, we see that we were just with that person to avoid being alone.

We were looking for that person to fill the void of loneliness and well, no wonder it didn’t work out.

What it all comes down to is if you don’t like and appreciate your own companionship – no one – not even George Clooney will fulfill you. – When was the last time you spent a full day in your own company? – Sometimes, it’s our friends and family that reveal things about us that we don’t exactly own for ourselves.

So we tackled the main problem here: you miss being in a relationship – not necessarily the person you were in the relationship with. For instance, you might not realize just how funny you are, until several people you’re close to tell you.

Everyone mourns differently, so widows/widowers must be careful not to let other people dictate the speed of their recovery.”“Too many variables to say what is right for anyone the old year thing is probably wise as a minimum. I didn’t quite make the 1 year wait to date thing…and I made a mess, I think I will use 5 years to remarry as a minimum.“This is variable, and having been married to a widower, been widowed and later marrying another widower as well as encountering several men on the widow/widower board, I have noticed that men seem to be ready earlier than women.

Also, if the person was terminally ill and that illness took a long time to run it’s course, the widowed person may have done a lot of grieving prior to the actual occurrence of death and might be ready to date earlier than ‘the experts’ predict.

The only person that can complete you and fill you up – is YOU!

If you’re looking for someone else to do that for you, rest assured that you will continue to travel the road of broken hearts over and over again.

Own those qualities your friends/family love about you and celebrate them in your alone time. Register for Break UP Club’s newly updated online course at to learn how to use your EX love to get to our NEXT love!

Let’s be clear – all this new awareness and clarification will not take away the sting of heartbreak.

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