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Always being rejected dating

I wrote back to let him knew when I was free and then…crickets.

Everything was going great until we had sex and he ghosted me. Soon after, a really cute guy from San Francisco messaged me on Tinder (we'd matched when I was in his area for a wedding).

The West Coast was a little far to pursue anything serious, but I was just so happy to feel excited about someone else to get my mind off the ghoster.

But there are two techniques that can sometimes give me a little bit of distance from my internal storylines. First, when I start hearing those voices in my head saying (OK, more like shouting), ""Second, when I’m trying to consider other possible explanations for why a guy bailed or ghosted or cut and ran, I could, in trying to comfort myself, decide that he’s just an asshole.

But I remind myself that most people are pretty wounded from childhood and past relationships, and they're going around acting out their wounds on each other.

Most of the time when guys disappear like that, they’re really just gone for good.

In the absence of reassurance from a man, one day I want to be able to tell myself that it’s not about me—and believe it.

After being ghosted and dealing with canceled dates, I found myself crying over random dudes.

It’s exhausting, but moving past these feelings is a process.

Sadly, for this type of rejection, there's nothing you can improve on.

The important thing is to learn something from each rejection. When a girl closes any communication path before even uttering two words, it's pretty obvious she's hooked on (or with) somebody else.

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